First let me say that I don’t believe that EVERYONE cheats.
I do believe their are temptations out there, or what can be seen as outside attractions to your partner, but that doesn’t mean everyone cheats.
It’s ok for men and women in relationships to be attracted to someone other than their partner, that’s just human nature, but that doesn’t have to lead to cheating.
If you find yourself wanting to seriously act on your feelings of attraction, then there is something surely missing from your current relationship.
It all starts with communication, and if you and your partner have poor communication, and aren’t connecting both mentally and physically, then I can see how this opens the door for cheating.
How we choose to deal with those feelings of infidelity has to do with ones character.
If you ever cared about your partner on any level then they deserve a honest conversation to end things.
Why do men or women invest the time into a relationship just to throw everything away for an emotionless fling?
Maybe it’s just because we are animals, and like animals we act without thinking.
Could it be that we hold onto relationships for security even through the bad times, just because we fear being alone?
Then when we are presented with what seems to be an exciting new opportunity, we easily jump ship.
If you are in a relationship, and it gets to the point where you can’t see yourself with your significant other, you need to just break it off and move on.
Someone is always going to get hurt in the breakup, but why do you have to damage someones future feelings of trust.
I just see cheating as such a damaging event when it comes to trust, and if we can’t trust each other in friendships, families, or intimate relationships, we lose our ability to really be happy.
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